​Day 11: My Problem with D.C.

Sitting on an elevated railroad high above, looking down on New York’s grid system is, weirdly, similar to looking down on a model village. Cars drive the streets in slow motion and the pace of life seems to significantly slow down. It feels like a long time till the morning.
Like a lot of people, I believe that everything happens for a reason. As fate would have it, I woke up just as the train was rumbling through the city. Instantly, I knew where I was. It wasn’t just the skyline as I passed over the Hudson, it was something else. If you’re in New York, you know it. It has this aura I’ve never felt anywhere else; almost a magnetic attraction. I knew then that I’d be spending large chunks of my future there. I can’t explain it but a lot of people will know what I mean.
After all that, I soon went back to sleep. The noise and the lights and the constant flow of people walking up and down the carriage were fine, but each and every time we came into a station I woke up. I guess the g-Force of the train braking does that to you.
It was raining when I got to D.C. Check in for the hostel I’d be staying at opened at 3pm. It was 7am and the majority of shops don’t open until 9. Great! At this point, I felt absolutely miserable. I was tired, I was hungry, I was soaked. I was also exposed to homelessness on levels I’ve never seen before in the Western world. In D.C., there seem to be beggars on every single corner of the city, almost all of whom are black. I looked very briefly into why homelessness is a race issue and was, unfortunately, not surprised by what I found. According to an article I read, a lot of it comes down to residential segregation, conscious or otherwise. In isolating black people in “areas that lack employment opportunities and services, and experience higher crime and poverty rates”, black homelessness was naturally allowed to rise to the levels present today. You go to D.C. to see the relics of American prosperity and yet are confronted by the reality of American poverty. Beside symbols of extravagance are symbols of inequality; besides monuments to freedom are testaments to dependence. For me, D.C. is a 68 square mile paradox.
Anyhow, I walked through the rain to the hostel, to put my bag in a locker and decide what I had the energy to go and do with my day. The National Museum of American History turned out to be the best bet: as a Smithsonian Museum, it’s free, and the wifi connection was good enough to allow me to upload a blog post. There’s a lot of information there, which is great when you’re feeling attentive, less so when your sleep-addled brain has the concentration span of a toddler on E -numbers. Regardless, the museum does have some really great artefacts that smaller, less reputable museums just don’t have access to. I can’t imagine seeing Duke Ellington’s keyboard or a lifejacket from the Titanic at my local history museum! I learnt an awful lot too. Take, for instance, the fact that in the Second World War, an American was more likely to be killed in the Merchant Navy than the regular Navy. Who would’ve thought?!
I spent about 2 hours killing time in their “Technology and Transportation” section and realised I’d not even scratched the surface. I’d seen maybe 4 of their 48 exhibits but left knowing that I could come back whenever I felt like it. I’m glad I went though – I could so easily have written off the day.
Still feeling rough, I bought some Hershey’s – it tastes like Easter Egg chocolate when you’ve eaten too much – and a pre-cooked meal at Wholefoods and then took the Metro back to McPherson Square, the closest station to the hostel. I chose to stay in a 10 man dorm as it was the cheapest available and I never once regretted it. I can’t speak for all rooms but the one I was in was U-shaped so it didn’t feel like people were packed in at all. Depending on where your bed is, it very much seems like you’re in a 6-man dorm. After checking in no problem (my provisional license proved to be a valid form of ID), I got up to my room, locked everything away, showered (they’re not communal)  and went down to work in the dining area.
As someone who’d been in a hostel, solo for the first time, for of all an hour, I was still very much in my shell and chose to sit on my own in a corner. That’s not to say that’s frowned upon though – one thing I found about hostelling is that you can be as quiet or as social as you like and no-one judges you for it. Some people are at the start of their trips and are looking to make friends; others are at the end and looking to get rid of them. Pietro, an old Italian guy who happened to be at the end of his plonked himself down next to me. He was flying to Baton Rouge the next day and had problems sorting his booking confirmation. I helped him to sort it out and that’s how we got talking. It really is that easy to get to know people. All I had to do was act like a decent human being.
There’s a ‘free pizza and social’ night every Tuesday and so soon after about 30 people swarmed into the kitchen in search of it. I wanted pizza but I was also too shy to go over and introduce myself to a bunch of perfect strangers. So, I sat in the corner procrastinating for about half an hour. “I’m gonna go over, I’m gonna go over. It won’t be that bad”. “Actually I’ll wait till some people have gone”. “Yeah, and a few more”. And on and on that went. I was the only person in the room not getting involved and boy did I feel lousy. In the end, I jumped ship completely and went down to watch TV with an Iraqi-American guy instead. He was a pretty sketchy, that’s all I’ll say.
That night, I went to bed early and thought long and hard about my current situation. I realised that I had every right to be nervous. I’m not a particularly extroverted person so why was it that I expected myself to dive into the thick of hostel life from the off and then beat myself up when I inevitably didn’t. Some people can easily do that, I couldn’t and that was fine. I realised then that the easiest thing to do is to talk to other solo travellers. Just sit down next to them and say “Hey, where are you from?”. It’s cliched, it’s overused but it works. And that’s how I met a lot of interesting people over the next couple of days.